Surah Al Ahzab Tafseer

O Prophet! Say to your wives:"If you desire the life of this world, and its glitter, then come! I will make a provision for you and set you free in a handsome manner.'

"But if you desire Allah and His Messenger, and the Home of the Hereafter, then verily, Allah has prepared for the doers of good among you an enormous reward."

I said to him,

"Concerning what do I need to consult my parents I choose Allah and His Messenger and the Home of the Hereafter."

He also narrated it without a chain of narrators, and added,

"She said, then all the wives of the Prophet did the same as I."

Imam Ahmad recorded that A'ishah, may Allah be pleased with her, said:

"The Messenger of Allah gave us the choice, and we chose him, so giving us that choice was not regarded as divorce."

It was recorded by (Al-Bukhari and Muslim) from the Hadith of Al-A`mash.

Imam Ahmad recorded that Jabir, may Allah be pleased with him, said:

"Abu Bakr, may Allah be pleased with him, came to ask permission to see the Messenger of Allah and the people were sitting at his door, and the Prophet was sitting, but he did not give him permission.

Then Umar, may Allah be pleased with him, came and asked permission to see him, but he did not give him permission.

Then he gave Abu Bakr and Umar, may Allah be pleased with them both, permission, and they entered. The Prophet was sitting with his wives around him, and he was silent.

Umar, may Allah be pleased with him, said, `I will tell the Prophet something to make him smile.'

Umar, may Allah be pleased with him, said, `O Messenger of Allah, if only you had seen the daughter of Zayd -- the wife of Umar -- asking me to spend on her just now; I broke her neck!'

The Messenger of Allah smiled so broadly that his molars could be seen, and he said,

هُنَّ حَوْلِي يَسْأَلْنَنِي النَّفَقَة

(They are around me asking me to spend on them).

Abu Bakr, may Allah be pleased with him, got up to deal with A'ishah; and Umar, may Allah be pleased with him, got up to deal with Hafsah, and both of them were saying, `You are asking the Prophet for that which he does not have!'

But the Messenger of Allah stopped them, and they (his wives) said, `By Allah, after this we will not ask the Messenger of Allah for anything that he does not have.'

Then Allah revealed the Ayah telling him to give them the choice, and he started with A'ishah, may Allah be pleased with her.

He said,

إِنِّي أَذْكُرُ لَكِ أَمْرًا مَا أُحِبُّ أَنْ تَعْجَلِي فِيهِ حَتَّى تَسْتَأْمِرِي أَبَوَيْك

I am going to tell you something, and I would like you not to hasten to respond until you consult your parents.

She said, `What is it.'

He recited to her:

يَا أَيُّهَا النَّبِيُّ قُل لاَِّزْوَاجِكَ

(O Prophet! Say to your wives)...

A'ishah, may Allah be pleased with her, said, `Do I need to consult my parents concerning you I choose Allah and His Messenger, but I ask you not to tell of my choice to your other wives.'

He said:

إِنَّ اللهَ تَعَالَى لَمْ يَبْعَثْنِي مُعَنِّفًا وَلَكِنْ بَعَثَنِي مُعَلِّمًا مُيَسِّرًا لَا تَسْأَلُنِي امْرَأَةٌ مِنْهُنَّ عَمَّا اخْتَرْتِ إِلاَّ أَخْبَرْتُهَا

Allah did not send me to be harsh, but He sent me to teach in a gentle and easy manner. If any of them asks me what your decision was, I will tell her."

This was also recorded by Muslim, but not Al-Bukhari; An-Nasa'i also recorded it.

Ikrimah said:"At that time he was married to nine women, five of them were from Quraysh --

A'ishah,

Hafsah.

Umm Habibah,

Sawdah and

Umm Salamah, (may Allah be pleased with them).

And he was also married to

Safiyyah bint Huyay An-Nadariyyah,

Maymunah bint Al-Harith Al-Hilaliyyah,

Zaynab bint Jahsh Al-Asadiyyah and

Juwayriyyah bint Al-Harith Al-Mustalaqiyyah, (may Allah be pleased with all of them).